Written By: Ibazainab Zeni
The day a mom completes 40 weeks, why does everyone pretend as if she is a ticking time bomb?
American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology (2019) and NHS UK (2022) say that only ~5% of women give birth on their due date. According to American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists ACOG, most first-time moms deliver between 40 and 41+5 weeks.
If these are the statistics, then why is there so much rush once the mother hits 40 weeks? Inductions start being scheduled and the mother is constantly reminded of risks such as the placenta “aging and calcifying”, baby “might be” passing meconium, etc. These risks may not happen all of a sudden; healthy pregnancies don’t suddenly become dangerous with no prior indications. Data shows that 41 weeks is within the normal range.
The 40 weeks due date comes from the assumption that the mother has a perfect 28 day cycle and the day she conceived is also known and exact. But that doesn’t hold true for most mothers. Labor truly starts when the baby’s and the mother’s body is ready. It is a cascade of hormones which can not be scheduled. These hormones are secreted in such precise manner which in turn influence a feedback cycle between the mother and the baby, which when left undisturbed, can peacefully lead to the natural birth of the baby.
For a healthy pregnancy, 2 weeks on either side of the expected due date is normal for giving birth naturally. Mothers should trust Allah’s (SWT) plan in choosing their baby’s birth date. While the mother is the one giving birth, we must not forget Allah is the one giving life.
Bang on!! Due dates are not expiry dates. We need to stop asking moms when are u due?. I feel it creates an unwanted stress. Beautiful write up Iba
Love the way you worded this Maashaa’Allaah đź’•
Unfortunately , he legal involvements are the main obstacle of giving the mom enough time to starting spontaneous labor .
Very true, some mothers also have a trend of conceiving later within their family (due to late ovulation and/or longer than 28 day period cycles). There’s definitely an element of tiredness and anxiety that the medical system takes advantage of in order to encourage the mom towards induction.
So true! It also add unnecessary stress for the mom. Jazakumallahu khairan for this wonderfully written blog✨💞
This is the awareness that we as mothers need to realize.. Well said Iba!
So true! What is the rush?!!
After being CBE learn that baby will come after he is ready to do with the fitness mom do during birth
So true, baby know when he is ready
Thank you for this valuable peice of writing.
very informative
So rightly said
So well written, thank you for this
Allah brought you out of the wombs of your mothers… QS An-Nahl 78