The Muscle of the Soul

2025-05-20T14:08:11+00:00

Written By: Hira Hassan Do you see the two muscles running down each side of the pelvis from the spine and attaching to the top side of both femurs? The muscles that connect our upper body to our lower body? They are the PSOAS muscles. Also known as "The Muscle of the Soul" and "The Trauma Muscle". Tension in these muscles may actually prolong your labor and make it difficult for baby to engage in the pelvis! Tension in the muscle can be caused by our modern lifestyle: Sitting for Prolonged periods of time Running (excessively) Biking (excessively) Any position [...]

Caesareans for Breech Babies! Why Is This the Default Option?

2025-05-20T10:20:53+00:00

Written By: Faheema Z. Mohammed (The Doula Coach) A breech presentation occurs when the baby is positioned with its buttocks or feet towards the cervix instead of the head. This occurs in about 3-4% full-term pregnancies. Historically, breech babies were often delivered vaginally, but over the years, the practice has shifted towards caesareans due to perceived risks and lack of training in vaginal breech delivery techniques. As a doula in the Middle East, I have encountered an increasingly large number of clients who are forced into believing that their breeched babies can only be delivered via a caesarean. While caesareans [...]

The Strength Behind the Scar: Supporting C-Section Moms with Love and Care

2025-05-13T07:27:30+00:00

Written By: Nabira Safiullah Every April , C-Section Awareness Month offers an important opportunity to recognize, support, and empower mothers who have experienced a cesarean birth. Whether it was planned or unexpected, a C-section is major surgery—and those who go through it deserve acknowledgment, empathy, and compassionate care during their recovery. Acknowledging the Journey: A C-section is not the “easy way out.” It’s a powerful, sometimes life-saving procedure that can bring both relief and emotional complexity. Many moms face feelings of disappointment, guilt, or trauma after a C-section, especially if their birth didn’t go as planned. It's okay to grieve [...]

درس من الطبيعة عن الولادة

2025-07-20T08:55:31+00:00

Written By: Hajar Arabat .الولادة كانت وما تزال حدثا غريبا وجميلا، هل سبق ورأيتِ قطة تلد؟ إن ما يحدث معها شبيه بما يحدث مع الإنسان، إلا أن ولادتها تكون غالبا ولادة توأم تختار القطة مكانا مريحا لها، لا يهم موقعه المهم أن يكون مريحا، ثم تنتظر بهدوء مرور الانقباضات، قد تصدر مواء خفيفا وتكون حركية أحيانا، وقد تلتزم الصمت التام وتركز على تغيير وضعيتها أو الاستلقاء أو لعق مكان الولادة، وخاصة إن اقترب موعد خروج الصغار تشعر بقرب خروج الرأس الأول، تركز وتبدو وكأنها تنظر للبعيد، ثم قد تعود وتلعق المخرج، وتعود لتنظر بعيدا، يخرج الرأس تلتفت وتسترق نظرة خاطفة [...]

Trusting Birth: Aligning with Divine Design and Inner Confidence

2025-05-20T09:59:08+00:00

Written By: Anisah Abdullah In today’s world, the journey into motherhood often begins with uncertainty. For many women, birth has become something to fear rather than something to embrace. But when we take a step back and look through the lens of faith, we remember something powerful—Allah’s design is flawless, and birth is part of that perfect creation. From the rhythmic surges of labor to the natural release of hormones that ease pain and strengthen contractions, birth is not a random event. It’s a sacred process, intricately woven into our bodies with wisdom and care. Allah, in His mercy, created [...]

رحلة ولادة بهدوء القلب وقوة الأمومة

2025-07-20T08:47:58+00:00Tags: |

Written By: Douaa Fakhani يوم الأحد والاثنين كان عندي تقلصات جدا خفيفة مع مغص وانتو بكرامة فتوقعت بسبب تغير الجو و ما له دخل بالولادة الاثنين ساعة ٨ المسا رضعت ابني الصغير( هو مفطوم من أول الحمل بس رجعت ارضعه لما دخلت الشهر التاسع مرة في اليوم أو كل يومين مرة 😅) صارت التقلصات شوي اقوى بس خفيفة ومتابعدة ولما اتحرك تروح ومعاها اجاني احساس فورة النشاط وتحمست ونظفت البيت وسويت كريم مرطب ومن الحماس ما نمت إلى الساعة ٤ الفجر في العادة نصحى الصبح على الساعة ٨ بس حسيت اني احتاج أنام زيادة فرجعت نمت اولادي صحوا لعبوا وافطروا [...]

Sacred Strength: Natural Birth Lessons from Maryam’s Story

2025-05-13T07:14:01+00:00

Written By: Nabira Safiullah The miraculous birth of Isa (AS) is a symbol of Allah’s power, strength, and surrender. Maryam (AS) gave birth alone in a remote place, without medical intervention, relying on her spiritual connection with Allah. For centuries, women have birthed naturally, trusting in their bodies and divine support. Maryam’s (AS) experience is a timeless example of this sacred process. Solitude and Strength Maryam (AS) withdrew to a remote location when she was pregnant, and in Surah Maryam, we learn she gave birth alone under a date palm tree. This moment reflects that childbirth is a natural, intimate [...]

Creating Awareness About Childbirth Education & Doula Work: A Holistic Approach

2025-04-25T06:28:16+00:00

Written By: Rida Fatima As a birth professional, you're passionate about supporting families through the transformative experience of childbirth. However, balancing your work with family time and finances can be challenging. Here's a comprehensive guide to help you create awareness about childbirth education and doula work while managing your personal and professional responsibilities. Building Your Platform 1. Define Your Niche: Specialize in a specific area of childbirth education or doula work, such as prenatal yoga, breastfeeding support, or VBAC accompaniment. 2. Social Media Presence: Leverage platforms like Instagram and Facebook, to share valuable content, engage with your audience, and build [...]

أهمية دعم الرضاعة الطبيعية

2025-05-13T07:42:04+00:00

لشغفي بالرضاعة الطبيعية، أرى أنه من الضروري تسليط الضوء على مدى كون هذه الرحلة فارقة. يُهمل الحديث عن الرضاعة الطبيعية، مما يؤدي إلى زيادة في استعمال الألبان الصناعية المرتبطة بأمراض معينة لاحقة في حياة الرضع. تصويب المبدأ: الرضاعة الطبيعية مهارة مكتسبة تشعر الكثير من الأمهات بالحيرة في رحلتهن للرضاعة الطبيعية، معتقدات أنها عملية تلقائية. وبرغم أن الرضاعة عملية فسيولوجية، إلا أنها مهارة يحتاج كل من الأم والرضيع إلى تعلمها معًا. وجود نظام دعم جيد وتثقيف الوالدين حول الرضاعة الطبيعية يمكن أن يشكل عاملًا حاسمًا في نجاح هذه الرحلة. الفوائد الأساسية للرضاعة الطبيعية هذه بعض النقاط التي تحتاج الأمهات لمعرفتها: تدعم [...]

Why Is A “Back-Up Doula” So Important?

2025-05-20T14:07:31+00:00

Written By: Faheema Mohammed As an active doula in a very busy and demanding city, I understand the profound impact I have on the lives of the families I support. My presence whether during pregnancy, childbirth, or postpartum can be a source of immense comfort, guidance, and strength. However, the nature of my work is undeniably unpredictable, and emergencies can arise at any moment. This is precisely why having a "back-up" doula is not just a good idea, it's honestly an essential component of my service. For example, about two years ago, there was a client who was due at [...]

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