The Trauma We Carry as Doulas — And the Healing We Often Neglect
Written By: Ayisha Chandni Doulas are trained to hold space for others. To stay calm in intensity. To support through uncertainty. To regulate the room when emotions rise. To witness birth in all its beauty and unpredictability. But what we rarely talk about is this: Who holds space for the doulas? Behind many compassionate birth workers are experiences that quietly stay with them long after the birth is over. The mother who felt unheard. The traumatic emergency. The loss we witnessed. The birth that did not unfold the way anyone hoped. The moments we had to remain composed, while emotions [...]